DevServer props and taregts shoudl fail the build if optimized

### What would you like to be added? 💡

`Uno.WinUI.DevServer.props` and `Uno.WinUI.DevServer.targets` should throw an error is they are referenced with `$(Optimize)` is set.

Ref github.com/unoplatform/uno/pull/22376

### Why is this needed? 🤔

_No response_

### Renderer 🎨

- [ ] Skia
- [ ] Native

### For which platforms 📱💻🖥️

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### Anything else we need to know? 💬

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